Monday, July 18, 2011

true friends

friends
amigos
pals
chums
associates
links
contacts
pal
buddy
companion
comrade
crony
mate- i think this ones funny and i always think of an australian guy saying "gooday mate"

people you know that you have something in common with or maybe you just think the other person is semi interesting and you just call each other friends so you dont have to call them a cordial aquaintance

the dictionary.com definition is....

friend

[frend] Show IPA
–noun
1.
a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
2.
a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter: friends of the Boston Symphony.
3.
a person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile: Who goes there? Friend or foe?


so pretty much its someone you can stand for longer than two seconds

i have all different kinds of friends

there are the best friends-
 the ones that would bail you out of jail no matter what. i have a few of those, i think caroline would be one of them, they always include you, start the converstaion on facebook and are always willing to have a chat no matter what. they are genuine and kind and are a "bosom friend" :)- love you chicka

then there are the good best friends-
the ones that invited you no matter what to an event even if you havent been able to come to the last four they have invited you to they still decide to include you (thank you alex clark and sarah ferraro).
they talk to you all the time on facebook and they care more about you then you ever thought anyone ever could (jawzii).
they listen to all of our crap that is going on in your life even though they've only known you like two weeks and just having someone to listen to you and talk to is one of the best things anyone could ever do(armon). the ones that say "if your going to even think about dating this boy i'm going to have to talk to him first." and say that "if this boy cant accept you for your height or something else about you then he is totally not worth your time"(tristan)
they are so over protective sometimes it pisses you off but you know its for your own good  and you love them anyways because of it, because they are your adopted big brother (alex cook).
give you advice. pick you up when your down and sometimes bring you cupcakes if your having an unusually awful day(thanks again tia and ali)
 the ones that come over no matter what and are always ready and willing to have a zelda night or play some maro kart on wii, they let you jump on their trampoline, and you scooter around the block with them all summer long. they know you better then you even know yourself (nick)

then there are the "friends"-
its the people you hang out with at school but sometimes you honestly dont know anything about them. you just so happen to be in band  with them and since you've both been through hell and back (sorry mom) during band camp you just somehow become "friends". or that you've been friends with these people for so long you dont know what to call them besides friends. you sometimes talk but you honestly dont know if they even care about you or what is going on in your life. these "friends" sometimes enjoy making fun of your insecurities, such as that you are a hopeless romantic or that you had a fling with a pretty spanish boy *cough* luke nord. they sometimes dont invited you because they "forgot" or they "couldnt get a hold of you". then they post on facebook how fun it was to be at that party. yeah thats soo much fun.....
i just want to be included

then there are the family friends
my dad would be one of them
we have the weirdest discussions and when i'm talking to him i usually dont have to worry about anything. if caroline for some odd reason couldnt come and bail me out of jail i would probably call my dad next.
all of my cousins and my aunts and uncles and my grandparents are some of the best people ever and i am proud to call you my family


over these past few weeks i've experienced some stuff that sort of drew the lines of where my true friends lie and where my not as true ones lie. i still want to be friends with people but now i have an idea on who actually matters to me. who cares for me as much as i care for them.


and its because of this i now know who my true legitimate go to the ends of the earth friends

are you in this group?

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