super woman

ok let me just start off by saying
this is not about the superwoman in the comic books with the itty bitty waist, vivacious curves and long brown hair

plus the tiny tighter than skin suit she loves to wear
and guys favorite part
the gargantuan boobs

but this is NOT and let me repeat NOT about super woman - had to repeat not or else the guys would only be thinking about her boobs for the entire part of this blog

no this is about the everyday girl
the one across the street or next door that you love and adore

is about their inner strenght
the real people that they are

have you ever really seriously thought about what really separates women and men
one chromosome
we have two X's instead of an X and a Y
technically we are just like men except for that one chromosome
so what really irks me is that so many social boundaries have been made because of this one freaking chromosome (sorry mom i said freaking)

women and men are night and day
we both have strengths and weaknesses
what society doesnt realize is that we cant just focus on a mans strengths for us to proceed
we need women
just like we need the sun to shine
we are esential
theres a reason why god made women bear children
we can handle it
- except for that one guy- but were excluding him

have you noticed that because of women our society has moved forward faster
it all started with the suffragist movements in the early 20th century
thanks to alice paul and many other women the world saw women not as their wives and bearers of their children but as members, people that had a voice and were willing to do anything to have it be heard.
women have broken down social boundaries left and right

rosa parks- she was one of the people to start the ball rolling for equal rights for african americans

 marian anderson- in 1939 the DAR refused to let her sing in DC's constitution hall because she was black. first lady eleanor roosevelt resigned from the DAR and her husbands administration arranged an outdoor concert at the lincoln memorial for a crowd of 75,000 and millions of radio listeners. she was the first african american to sing with the metropolitan opera and in 1958 became a delegate to the UN

mother teresa- do you think any of what she accomplished could hav been as sucessful, if she hadnt done it.

amelia earhart- she showed up all those pilots- need i say more

marie curie- she won two yes two nobel peace prizes- she discovered two elements! holy cow!

margaret thatcher- first female prime minister for britain

annie oakley- shes one tough chick

eleanor roosevelt- do you think any other first ladies ever were more involved until she came along?
nope

JK Rowling- come on who hasnt read her books? shes inspirational!

Barbara streisand- she refused to get a nose job when someone told her she had to to be a star. shes famous! ha ha

Helen Keller- she had everything against her and yet she still conquered and inspired the world

all of these women were strong smart and used their brains not their looks to get where they wanted to go
they aspired to be something more and they were
they acheived their dreams and persevered

 <3

none of them were sex symbols
did you notice that?

they used their brain not their body to change the world

ok so marilyn monroe was famous but really did she change the world like these women?
no
ok so maybe she influence some kennedy's but not really


see heres the problem with our society
were all really superficial
we focus too much on fitting in and to fit in we have to be sexually active
isnt that crazy?
having sex just to fit in
i think its just wrong
because if a person only loves you for the sex then they are wayy below what your standards are
you deserve so much better

girls dress in over revealing clothing to show off their curves
have you seen how freakishly tiny prom dresses are
its like "i'm going to have just enough fabric to cover all the necessary areas and thats all i need"
girls all think that they have to wear all the designer clothing and show everything to get noticed
when really its totally opposite
if you really want a relationship then you need to be with some one whos not as shallow as what your bra size is
ok i'll admit it i do have a victoria secret bra and it looks great but i dont show off everything
its just not necessary
i mean if a guy only likes you for your rack- hes not worth your time
sure looks are part of a relationship- who does love going out with a dreamy guy?- but to make it last you have to look beyond it

and if your stressing about being a size zero because you think thats the only way guys will like you then you are seriously mistaken
believe it or not i'm actually a size 7 or 8
plenty of people are larger or smaller then me
and if you look healthy and glowing you'll attract guys better that way

you are so much prettier then what you wear
if he doesnt like you for who you are throught thick and thin
no matter what happens
he still isnt worth your time

women are usually the "smarter" gender of our society
we have the capacity to love unconditionally
we have minds
we have hearts
we think in color
not black, white and gray

my mom says "if women ruled the world we wouldnt have wars"
which i think is totally true
women wouldnt intentionally send their babies off to war

 <3


love yourself for who you are and the world will change for you, if you are so sure about who you are then the world cant do anything to change that. then it will give and change

the greatest love stories were not about how the other person looked like- that would get really old quickly. if all it was about was that the other person was hot.
it was about who the other person was
and how beautiful they were on the inside

we all have insecurities
we all have parts of us we'd rather not have
we all wish we were the "it girl"
we have wacko families
we all have happily ever afters
we all want prince charming
we all want to be accepted
we all want to be able to dance in the light



god made you how he wanted you to be
dont be fake

be yourself
thats the best advice i can give
and the world
WILL CHANGE FOR YOU

your gorgeous
you are unique
you are original
you are dazzling
you are lovely
you are classic
you are genuine
you are real
you are true
you are glittery
you are you


you have flaws
so what!
we all do
but your going to love yourself anyway
your perfect in my eyes

and if people can accept that then you are way better then them
and they dont belong in your life
you are one of a kind
dont copy
make your own path


i have a bumper sticker that says "women who did what they were told never made history"

<3

so prove them all wrong
love who you want to love
show up the world
you are you and there is nothing they can do about it

"you are you, which is truer than true, and there is no one truer then you"
remeber that!

be your own super woman
and some day you WILL change the world

you are perfect to me
so show me what you got!
and i will cheer you on the entire way if your doing what you love

love yourself and the world will too

love- its how the world changes- one woman at a time

<3 always

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